When I ask this question, I am asking if you know who your go to people are. Who are the ones you can reach out to for support, an ear for listening, guidance, advice or just because they put a smile on your face. These are our soul family!
It is so important to know who these people are in our life. Not everyone is the right choice when it comes to support and knowing this is HUGE! This is a lesson I learned a very long time ago and was so grateful I did.
I had began to notice that I would go to who I thought I should because that is what I had always done, but started to realize that I often felt worse instead of better after. I was noticing their advice or solutions were not in alignment with me. With who I am, what I believe and what I needed. So I started to be more mindful when I reached out for support.
I started to really think about the limitations of the people I was asking. What appeared to be their belief systems and were they in alignment with mine. This was not about judgement. It was about recognizing where people can take you and when someone can’t go the distance, they aren’t the right person to ask.
This valuable lesson lead me to taking time to understand my support system. I don’t go to the same person for everything. Everyone has their strengths. It is beautiful to be able to honour that. But even more so, it is beautiful to honour ourselves. This journey is a long one with lots of twists and turns along the way. Make then more enjoyable by reaching out to the right supports for you along the way.
Sending much love as we travel through some interesting energy right now!
Original post was shared on April 7, 2025
